We are not in charge of the universe
We can either go with the flow or fight against it. We can either acknowledge we are part of all that is, or we can consider ourselves separate and unique and individual.
And, of course, in this reality, we are all those things. We can not avoid being, doing, becoming, creating all those things.
We can not avoid being part of all that is We can not avoid being individual.
We all must find a way to balance this circumstance while we are alive, within the context in which we find ourselves.
The degree to which we achieve and sustain this balance is the measure of our life here. The degree to which we achieve this balance is the vibration that arises with our brief sojourn here and the vibration we leave in our wake as we merge back through the quantum stuff that makes physical experience possible.
We can do better.